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8 Minutes to Put Meaning into July 4th

8 Minutes to Put Meaning into July 4th

July 4th is just a few days away.  My family will be watching this 8 minute video by Dennis Prager to put meaning into the holiday celebration.  (For more great videos, visit Prager University). You will not only get a history lesson, you’ll get a few ideas of how to […]



Why I Don’t Have Games on My Smartphone

Your smartphone. It holds your messages and texts.  It gets you online for answers.  The map gets you to your destination. Constant entertainment through video games for your kids. Wait.  Hold that thought. Do you really want constant entertainment through video games for your kids? Do you really want to experience […]



Work as a Husband/Wife Team This Summer

Just the other day, a friend of ours with younger kids asked James and I for parenting advice.  One thing we talked about was the importance of a united front. If mom says A is okay, but dad says A is off limits, it’s not only confusing for a child.  It […]



Podcast: Dr. Jennifer Degler on Fan the Flame for Moms

Download the podcast on iTunes or listen here: Psychologist, author and speaker Dr. Jennifer Degler joins Arlene to talk about the changing sex life of a mom. How do you adapt to different stages in your marriage as your children grow?  Do the words “mom” and “sex life” really go together?  […]



They’re Home! Now What?

They’re home from school! Now what do we do with them? Summertime may mean your kids are at daycare, week-long camps, summer classes, or at grandma’s.  It’s a wonderful time to take a break from the routines of the school year. Yet when they’re not in those activities, you may wonder […]


Yes, Focus on the Family hosts Jim Daly and John Fuller are a hoot!

Focus on the Family: Stay Close During the Parenting Years

What an honor to be a guest on Focus on the Family radio today! I have listened to Focus for years – long before I had any children.  I think even before I met Mr. Wonderful himself. Before you have children, building a happy marriage is a lot simpler.  After […]



Why I Don’t Give My Kids an Allowance

James and I don’t give the kids an allowance.  We are not against allowances, but we’ve found another way to use money as an incentive for initiative. Initiative is: the energy and desire that’s needed to do something. Initiative means that a kid doesn’t have to be wait to be told […]