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Nix the Old Nighties

On Day 22 of my book 31 Days to a Happy Husband, I tell you all about my “Polar Bear Club” t-shirt.  It was my beloved night shirt that I later found out James despised.  What to do when you want to look hot in bed but you don’t want to feel cold?

After some discussion, I retired my “Polar Bear Club” t-shirt and exchanged it for some prettier cotton sleep shirts.

For this week’s assignment, ask your husband if there is something you wear to bed that he doesn’t care for.  Out of sheer good will, put those pajamas into retirement and buy something prettier at Victoria Secret, Ross, TJ Maxx, or another department store.

Nix all your old nighties and PJs that are worn down, fraying, fading, oversized, or unattractive.  Marry comfort with flattering style so both you and your hubby will be happy as you catch your zzz’s.