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"Arlene Pellicane shares practical ideas on how to become a happy wife."

-Dr. Gary Chapman, bestselling author of The Five Love Languages

"Arlene is energetic and funny. She knows how to connect with an audience and drive home her empowering message."

-Ken Davis, popular speaker and bestselling author of 12 books

"31 Days to a Happy Husband is a meaningful read for any wife who wants to get closer to her husband."

-David Jeremiah, pastor and founder of Turning Point Ministries, New York Times Bestselling Author

"Arlene Pellicane’s message in 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Wife is every bit as clear, bright, cheerful, and wise as she is."

-Liz Curtis Higgs, speaker and bestselling author of nearly 30 books


Day 18 – I’m Not 13, But My Hormones are Raging!

I haven’t experienced the joy of menopause yet. The hot flashes. The mood swings. The weight gain. Did I miss anything? That’s why I interviewed Danna Demetre, RN and author of The Menopause Guide and The Heat is On about surviving and thriving during the menopause years.  Danna is an […]


Day 17 – Plastic Surgery, Botox, and Other Modern Marvels

We’ve been talking about the heart and mind, now it’s time to lo at the body. When I say “the body,” do you cringe inwardly?  Maybe you need to lose a few pounds.  Maybe the aches and pains in your body are growing louder each day.  Maybe the wrinkles are […]


Day 16 – What’s Next?

“What’s next?” is a question for the small and big stuff of life. I’ve eaten my breakfast.  What’s next? Now I’m retired after 35 years in the same career.  What’s next? In this chapter about transition, I write about three women I highly admire:  Organizing Pro Marcia Ramsland, TV news […]


Day 15 – Laugh and Eat Chocolate

Growing up, I did not like dark chocolate.  I thought it was too bitter.  Now I think it’s divine! So when research said that dark chocolate was good for you, I was thrilled.  Now we have a medical excuse to eat dark chocolate.  But of course, there are those pesky […]


Day 14 – Whatever Happens, Remain Calm

Since I have young kids (ages 6, 4 and 1), at least once a day¸ I’m saying, “It’s ay.  Stay calm.  Mommy will fix it.” Isn’t it true that we need someone to say that to us at least once a day too? Here’s when I need to hear those […]


Day 13 – Where Are My Keys?

This day will help you get organized.  Lord knows this doesn’t come naturally to me so I had to list the help of the Organizing Pro, Marcia Ramsland.  I have been blessed to live near Marcia who is an amazing author and speaker.  She helps you Simplify Your Life, as […]


Day 12 – 4000 Hobbies

I wrote about two of my friends at church in this chapter, Debbie and Kay.  Debbie fulfilled her longtime dream of swimming in the Great Barrier Reef.  Kay learned how to quilt and started her own “prayers and squares” group to give quilts to people going through great difficulty.  I […]