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"Arlene Pellicane shares practical ideas on how to become a happy wife."

-Dr. Gary Chapman, bestselling author of The Five Love Languages

"Arlene is energetic and funny. She knows how to connect with an audience and drive home her empowering message."

-Ken Davis, popular speaker and bestselling author of 12 books

"31 Days to a Happy Husband is a meaningful read for any wife who wants to get closer to her husband."

-David Jeremiah, pastor and founder of Turning Point Ministries, New York Times Bestselling Author

"Arlene Pellicane’s message in 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Wife is every bit as clear, bright, cheerful, and wise as she is."

-Liz Curtis Higgs, speaker and bestselling author of nearly 30 books


Day 9 – Do What You Love

Do you what you do?  If you are doing the exact same thing in one year, would you be happy with that? I was visiting friends in Palm Springs with my family and we learned that our friends church, Southwest Community Church, operated 3 thrift stores.  We didn’t need […]


Day 8 – Childlike Prayers

I wrote this chapter about childlike prayers because I am inspired by the prayers of kids.  My husband is a realtor and it had been a hard year in that business for sure.  But God had continued to provide.  One day we were celebrating my husband selling a house and […]


Day 7 – Pluck Without Pain

This chapter has a very funny story about my husband and me.  I don’t want to spoil it for you so I’ll just say it has something to do with correcting my personal appearance and specifically my face!  Talk about a touchy subject.  The encounter was painfully awkward but resulted […]


Day 6 – Grace in a Bottle

When my mom saw my bo for the first time, she said, “I wish there were pictures inside.”  I reminded her impatiently (sorry mom!) that bos like mine weren’t picture bos.  So for all of you who wonder what these people lo like – here you go!  This is Gracie […]


Day 5 – The Warmth of Community

In this chapter, I a story from this San Diego First Assembly women’s retreat.  I’ve become a huge fan of women’s retreats for many reasons: Meeting new friends Catching up with old friends Listening to messages that help me evaluate where I am and where I want to go […]


Day 4 – Heart Healthy Choices

Here are four generations of my family.  My 89-year-old grandmother, my mom, me, and baby Lucy. In today’s reading, I challenge you to think of the health of your heart.  Both physically and spiritually.  I would like to plan for cardiovascular exercise in the New Year.  What type of […]


Day 3 – You’re Soaking In It

This successful ad campaign by Palmolive had women saying the phrases “You’re soaking in it” and “Palmolive softens hands while you do the dishes.” For Day 3 of my bo, I to those popular catchy phrases and tied them into soaking in God’s Word.  What if, like Palmolive, we allowed […]