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"Arlene was so entertaining and really opened herself up.  I have never seen a more authentic speaker.  She gave us very clear ideas we can put into practice right away."

- Dee Dee Hill, Director of The Well at Rancho Bernardo Community Presbyterian Church

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31 Days to Becoming a Happy Wife

untitledDo you wish you were a happier wife?

Your husband will not live up to all your expectations – even if he is Mr. Wonderful.  It’s time to realize that you are the one who ultimately decides whether or not you are happy.

With insights from happy wives such as Liz Curtis Higgs, Carol Kent, and Pam Farrel, you’ll learn how to become happier in just 31 days.  Organized in short easy-to-read daily chapters, you will become more:

H – Hopeful – believe a happy marriage is within reach

A – Adaptable – learn to be open to change

P – Positive – choose to be more optimistic

P – Purposeful – discover a new vision for your role as a wife

Y – Yielded – experience joy as you submit to God’s plan

The book includes a “Happy Wives Discussion Guide” to enhance your personal study or for a group study.


“Arlene does it again.  She provides great humor and practical wisdom combined with scriptural references and prayers of hope for each section of her book.”

– Sarah H.

“This book is amazingly helpful with keeping things in perspective.  I love how Arlene uses REAL people, situations and experiences to explain everything.  My husband is wondering what has changed and it’s me – thanks to this awesome book!”

– Katrina L.

“I highly recommend this book regardless what shape your marriage is in.  Make it your gift to yourself!”

-April C.

Buy 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Wife on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Christian Book Distributor


  1. Theresa Howell says:

    I would love to read this book. It looks like a book worth getting.

  2. Irene Mount says:

    Hello Arlene,
    Kelly DeChant just sent me news [see Kelly’s comment at the bottom] that you will be our speaker at our next Girls Night Out at Shadow Mountain Community Church. It is my delight to be on the prayer team for this event so I will be lifting you up in prayer as you prepare for that evening.
    Also, I would love to let you know that we will be having a special learning time at our church. Precept Ministries is sending an instructor to teach a three hour course on How to Study your Bible using the Inductive Method. I would like to let you know about it and extend an invitation to attend. It will be Saturday, August 23 from 9AM to Noon. Let me know if you would like more information on attending and I will be glad to forward that to you.
    Irene Mount

    Kelly says:
    Now for some praises! We have our speaker and you’re going to love her! She is a local gal Arlene Pellicane and she’s lovely. She was overjoyed to be asked to be our speaker and she’s already working on her talk! With the main word of our theme topic is BELIEVE, Arlene is titling her message, “In Every Season Believe.” Isn’t that sweet! Please check out her website to see all that the Lord has done and how He is using Arlene and her very talents to Glorify Him. She is a gifted author and speaker; we are going to blessed. Please keep her in prayer as she prepares for her time here with our SMCC ladies!

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  5. Famus says:

    I have a dear friend that has one struggle after another and her current struggle has found her needing to find herself, and her home happy. This book (along with more of Arlene Pellicane’s) will really ‘hit the mark’! Thanks!

  6. Hello, Arlene. I’m an editor at Herald Press, and I’d be honored to have you consider writing a foreword for a forthcoming book of ours entitled Fledge: Launching Your Kids without Losing Your Mind. Written by Brenda L. Yoder, Fledge equips Christian parents with biblical and practical wisdom for the launching years. I’d love to send you more information and a pdf of the manuscript for your consideration. Thank you, and I look forward to hearing from you.

  7. Sharla says:

    Looks/sounds like a great book!

  8. Brenda Williams says:

    Yes! 31 days?! Is that all it takes? I’m in. Can’t wait to read this book. Bless you for making this opportunity happen.

  9. DS says:

    I purchased this book and I really like it a lot. But suppose your husband is a negative, selfish, narcissistic husband? I’m only on day 7 and I have to say this is REALLY hard for me.

    Do I ignore the negativity and just try to focus on me and my son? I don’t think my husband is willing to change anything.

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