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Olympic Gold as a Wife

Olympic Gold as a Wife

My favorite moment of the Sochi Olympic Winter Games? Watching Meryl Davis and Charlie White ice dancing.  Pure magic.  I love to watch their stunning figure skating and the joy on their faces.  I think they light up the screen. Next favorite moment:  Noelle...
Remember How You Met?

Remember How You Met?

Remember how you first met your spouse? James and I met at Regent University in Virginia Beach.  He was studying for a Masters in Divinity and a Masters in Business.  I was studying for a Masters in Journalism. But of course, I was praying to also get that coveted MRS...
What Happiness Isn’t

What Happiness Isn’t

With my new book 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Wife in bookstores like Family Christian, Barnes & Noble, and Amazon, I’ve been asked a lot about happiness. Isn’t happiness a selfish goal? What if I’m just not a very cheerful person? What is...
Love Keeps No Records

Love Keeps No Records

Are you old enough to remember a record? You know, a big vinyl disc that played music long before iTunes came along? I remember my first record was Grease.  My husband James had The Village People with “YMCA” on one side and “Macho Man” on the...
Parents Day Out!

Parents Day Out!

When did you last have a Parents Day Out? James and I had a day to ourselves yesterday and loved it! We went to Disneyland…the land of strollers, snacks, and tired children…all. by. ourselves. It was wonderful! Our kids who were in school weren’t...
Kiss Me Like You Mean It

Kiss Me Like You Mean It

Remember how you kissed your spouse when you were dating? Wowee, right? How about after 1, 5, 10, 15 years of marriage?  How’s the kissing now? Well, I love what psychologist Dr. David Clarke writes in his book, Kiss Me Like You Mean It.  And until November 12,...
Snickers or Big Hunk?

Snickers or Big Hunk?

Well, since it’s candy week, I figured a post about Snickers & Big Hunk would be in order.  Not so much because they are delicious, but because of what they can teach us as wives. When you married your husband, wasn’t he the “Big Hunk” in...
Best Jigsaw Puzzle Gift Ever

Best Jigsaw Puzzle Gift Ever

James and I spoke at a marriage retreat this past weekend up in the mountains.  The retreat organizers had the best jigsaw puzzle gift ever. The theme of the retreat was “The Amazing Race.”  Marriage is a marathon isn’t it?  They had team games and...
3 Scriptures to Pray Over Your Husband

3 Scriptures to Pray Over Your Husband

Last week, I wrote about 3 Scriptures to pray over your children.  So I thought it would be very fitting to follow up with 3 Scriptures you can pray over your husband. And – as a sidenote – you can pray these prayers even if you don’t have a husband...
25 Date Night Movie Ideas from Netflix

25 Date Night Movie Ideas from Netflix

It’s time to unwind and relax.  You want to get a movie to watch that both you and hubby will enjoy.  But you don’t know what to get next.  Here are 25 date night movies that James and I have enjoyed from Netflix.  They are not in order of preference. 1....
Keep Dating Past Valentine’s Day

Keep Dating Past Valentine’s Day

How did your Valentine’s Day go last week? I talk often about dating on a budget because many people ask how to go out without spending too much money.  I’m happy to report James and I went out on a cheap date for less than $25 on Saturday night to...
Happy Valentine’s Day

Happy Valentine’s Day

Happy Valentine’s Day friends!  I spent much of the day with the MOPS and Moms Next group at Trinity Presbyterian Church in Santa Ana.  We talked about how to have happier husbands so it was a good reminder to all of us (me included) on this holiday. I came home...
In the Media:  K-LOVE and Coffee Dates

In the Media: K-LOVE and Coffee Dates

What can you and your sweetheart do to bring a new twist to your daily grind? I talk with K-LOVE reporter Rafael Sierra today about what you can do on your  next coffee date to mix things up.  And remember – these dates work for after Valentine’s Day too!...

Valentine’s Day for Hubby

When it comes to Valentine’s Day, the spotlight is often on women.  Just look at the advertisements.  Chocolate truffles, diamond tennis bracelets and floral arrangements abound.  Not exactly what men want on February 14th.  So what does your husband want on...
Why Mommy Can’t Talk

Why Mommy Can’t Talk

A mom with no words? A wife who can’t talk? Yep, that’s been me for the past four days.  I have laryngitis and a cold. It’s been a dream come true for James.  A wife who doesn’t talk his ear off! I’ve learned a few things in these past...
What Do Looks Have to Do With It?

What Do Looks Have to Do With It?

When I was in NYC, it was impossible to miss the billboards.  Larger than life, looming over Times Square, plastered along every subway line…photos of actors and models. Airbrushed and perfect. Provocative and alluring. Just another reminder of how men are wired...
Watch Arlene’s TV Segment Here

Watch Arlene’s TV Segment Here

Click on the photo to watch Arlene’s segment about 31 Days to a Happy Husband on The Better Show.  Also at the beginning of the show, the hosts Audra and JD are fighting over the book.  This open totally made me smile.  The book is called...
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