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Labor Day & Marriage

Labor Day & Marriage

We’ve celebrated Labor Day weekend with maybe hot dogs, some shopping, and sleeping in on Monday.  Labor Day is an American holiday that celebrates the economic and social contributions of workers. Workers…hmm…that actually reminds me of husbands and...
The Princess Bride’s Epic Love

The Princess Bride’s Epic Love

One of the first movies I saw with James when we were just friends was Princess Bride.  We watched the movie with 20 other graduate students at someone’s house.  The movie is a classic love story between the beautiful Buttercup and her beloved Westley who she...
Change of Pace

Change of Pace

To have a DREAM marriage, you’ve got to have some fun…that’s the “M” in “DREAM” – Mutual Activities But instead of enjoying activities together, sometimes you are stuck in a rut.  Routine. Monotony.  Boredom. What do you...
Tim Hawkins on the Comedy of Marriage

Tim Hawkins on the Comedy of Marriage

Download the podcast or listen to it now: http://traffic.libsyn.com/pellicane/Tim_Hawkins_on_the_Comedy_of_Marriage.mp3 Do yourself a favor and make sure you know this man – Tim Hawkins.  Tim is my family’s favorite comedian.  Whether he’s talking...
What’s the “M” in “DREAM”?

What’s the “M” in “DREAM”?

This month, we have been talking about having that DREAM marriage and going through the five keys in my book 31 Days to a Happy Husband. This week, we finish up with the M in DREAM which is Mutual Activities.  Your husband needs you to have fun with him!  (And you...
Why Your Husband Needs You to Smile

Why Your Husband Needs You to Smile

The A in DREAM stands for Attraction.  And although my book is titled 31 Days to a Happy Husband, we as wives know this saying is true too:  Happy wife, happy life! When a wife is happy or unhappy, everyone in the household knows.  James says if he had to boil down my...
The Scent of a Wife

The Scent of a Wife

We’re on the A in DREAM which is Attraction…Your husband needs to be attracted to you.  Why is this important? When James and I were dating, he would spray cologne (Polo Sport by Ralph Lauren) on his love notes to me.  I would spray perfume (Pleasures by...
Are You Still the One for Your Man?

Are You Still the One for Your Man?

We’re going from one hot topic (the E in DREAM which is Eros) to another hot topic (the A in DREAM which is Attraction).  Your husband needs to be attracted to you.  I love the lyrics of Shania Twain’s song You’re Still the One:  You’re still...
What’s Killing Your Lovelife?

What’s Killing Your Lovelife?

We’re talking about one of the most important keys to your husband’s heart:  the E in DREAM which is Eros.  Your husband needs a fulfilling sex life (and so do you as we learned in the last post). In my book 31 Days to a Happy Husband, I write about...
How to Become a Turned On Woman

How to Become a Turned On Woman

Out of the five keys in my book 31 Days to a Happy Husband, the E in DREAM which is Eros is probably your husband’s favorite. I asked sex therapists and authors Dr. Cliff and Joyce Penner if I could interview them for the book.  Their classic book The Gift of...
What’s His Number One Need?

What’s His Number One Need?

Okay, we’re at the center of the word DREAM as we consider the five keys in my book 31 Days to a Happy Husband.  The “E” is that hot, flaming eros.  Your husband needs a fulfilling sex life.  When I was writing the book, I did some research with the...
Lazy, Good fer Nothin Men…

Lazy, Good fer Nothin Men…

Part of having a DREAM marriage is the “R” in DREAM which is Respect.  A man needs to be respected in his own home. I mentioned actor Kevin Sorbo (Hercules, Soul Surfer) in my last post.  He talked with me about the Hollywood portrayal of the average...
Submission Lesson from a Taco

Submission Lesson from a Taco

I use the acroustic DREAM in the book 31 Days to a Happy Husband.  This week we’re on R for Respect.  Part of showing respect to your man is listening to what he says and following his lead (submission).  I got a lesson in showing my husband some respect from an...
Unemployment Blues

Unemployment Blues

Part of living a DREAM marriage with your husband is providing him with Domestic Tranquility which is the D in DREAM. That can be especially challenging when one of you is unemployed, underemployed or overemployed.  Since many families are dealing with unemployment...
Dear Husband, Take a Number

Dear Husband, Take a Number

Ready – set – go to your bookstore and look for 31 Days to a Happy Husband!  It’s officially out today! We’ve been talking about the D in DREAM – Domestic Tranquility: You husband needs a peaceful haven. Radio talk show host Dennis Prager...
CHAOS:  Can’t Have Anyone Over Syndrome

CHAOS: Can’t Have Anyone Over Syndrome

31 Days to a Happy Husband comes out this Wednesday…so I will be blogging for the next 31 days about the five keys that will bring out the happy in your husband. The five keys spell the word D-R-E-A-M. When you stood and pledged yourself in marriage to the man...
John Fuller and a Focus on His Family

John Fuller and a Focus on His Family

Download the podcast, or listen to it now:  http://traffic.libsyn.com/pellicane/John_Fuller_and_a_Focus_on_His_Family.mp3 In San Diego where I live, FamilyLife Today and Focus on the Family air back to back on the radio between noon and 1 pm each weekday.  On the last...
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